Before I knew much of anything regarding self-sabotage behaviours, I was someone that accepted life the way it was and the feelings of worry, anxiety, self-doubt were just feelings I should just get on with and be proud I was getting on with them. The classic alpha male response in many men
I was a military guy spending 9 years in the British Royal Marines and had a childhood that moulded me to being mentally tough but not conscious to really understand my environment OR myself.
As a family man with 2 wonderful children, I decided to step away from the military and security world in 2018 and threw myself into the investment’s world starting a property investment holding company which has done well enough allowing me time and financial freedom to focus on myself properly. In this time, I conducted counselling, both as an individual and marriage counselling, and courses on consciousness, really focusing on health and being present with my children.
However, I then came across self-sabotage and this was an absolute game changer. Understanding the common theme within society that causes so much pain and struggle helped me navigate my individual life to a point where I am far more conscious and content with myself and life around me.
The common theme was knowing the internal responses we all share to stress and the sub-conscious mind.
My proudest achievement is being more present with my children and experiencing moments of feeling pure joy when they do, laughing when they laugh and wanting to play with them rather than focusing on things outside of my control. I now see so much value in listening to peoples stories, help educate them on self-sabotage, and show them how they too can without doubt, change their life’s around.
I would love to connect with you over a free 30 min call should you feel you are struggling in life just now.
I live I the UK so I work on GMT timings.
Kind Regards Calum
Email – fullregain42@gmail.com